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By Brittany Cox Updated September 30, We scoured the web and grabbed some of the best explanations from attdacted about why they are not attracted to husband or wife now. Updated September 30, 1. Initially I was attracted to him, not because of his looks, but because of his personality and how loving he seemed. He was soft and flabby, but I liked his personality so I looked past it.

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Thanks you so much for your help. A loss of attraction is common in long-term relationships. Although, for some, a lack of attraction can be a phase, for others, it may mean your heart isn't in the relationship anymore. Somewhere attracteed the way sex morphed into us just giving each other oral every once and awhile. The most obvious is that the fire in the bedroom will be quenched.

This is an issue for another day. You grow more annoyed by his actions.

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Attraction is the big X Factor in any relationship. At first, I thought it was a phase. If you love them, tell them you love them.

It is no secret that compatibility is a stronger predictor of relationship health than chemistry. If so, be sure to approach it gently and tactfully, not in an accusing or critical way. But he showered me with attention and proved himself to be a good guy. But others may say it is not worth the effort to decide if the element of attraction isn't there.

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They realized they weren't compatible enough with their partner anymore. Initially I was attracted to him, not because of his looks, but because of his personality and how loving he seemed. Based on your new experience, you should be able to stop the loss of attraction early on. Try to listen to what he has to say. I had fallen in love with a man.

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I'm not sexually attracted to him, per usual for me, but attracyed are absolutely perfect. It's time to weigh the importance of that lack of attraction and how it might affect your relationship.

13 people on what happened when they stopped being sexually attracted to their partner

Sex is important, yes. Sexual attraction isn't always a given in a relationship.

He might also be confused about what changed your mind about him. But to assume you can easily sustain those feelings year after year is wishful thinking.

8 people reveal why they stopped being sexually attracted to their partners

This has ended up being beneficial in a couple of different ways. Were I a much younger man, the loss of sexual attraction would have probably boyfdiend me a lot more. It rarely does. The effort once put into looking and feeling good has gone by the wayside, which can affect how you feel about yourself, as well as how your partner perceives you. Here's how to get the passion back before it's too late.

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My son had never even seen it. This piece was originally published on September 12, Get toys. You used to look forward to talking with him about your day, but now you keep things to yourself or discuss it with a girlfriend. If the relationship is ending, examine why and is it worth it. I just remember time passing and eventually I got used to his overall change and stopped noticing it. Be thoughtful.

I would suggest trying to fix the relationship and choosing a breakup as your last choice. We often underestimate how rare it is to have a partner who loves us unconditionally.

What to do if you think you're not attracted to your partner anymore

"My boyfriend and I have experienced a sexual attraction decline but I love him to death. Is the attraction coming back?

Maybe you were attracted to his looks at first and developed a further attraction even through his quirks. Remember that this does not necessarily spell doom for your relationship. Maybe some serious life changes are influencing the attraction between you and your boyfriend. You no longer feel excited or look forward to going out on a date with your boyfriend.

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However, this is presuming a steady baseline of attraction from which to grow. Trust me, I've been in this situation before, myself. There are a few things to consider as you understand where each person stands. Even though you will assess your thoughts attractd how things have been, you need to consider those of your partner because they could be feeling the same.