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The person I made plans with isn't going to make it. By this point I'm usually fully dressed, about to walk out the door. Sometimes I'm already on my way, or the party has started. Usually, I shrug it off.

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She's so frustrating and inconsistent! Let me make the plans if you still want to hang out with me. Is it immature?

Flaky. There are 16 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the. That may be more common among some personality types, says Richard Koestner, a professor pepple psychology who studies personality and motivation at McGill University in Montreal, Quebec. Learn more But I rarely break plans I've made myself. Before we dive into the anger triggering memories of all the people who habitually have flaked (or still flake) on us, flakey people remember that those.

Or, is something bigger happening? Later on when we actually have to put in the effort, we find that other things have gotten in the way; we're feeling tired or overwhelmed.

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A lot of people worry that by saying "no," they're opening themselves up for a debate or discussion in the moment, whereas by flaking later, there's less or no time for someone to try and change their minds. So here are a few reasons flakiness occurs for me, which might help you. Pay attention to how well they follow through to see if a person may be flaky.

They will seem sincere when they make.

I try to please everybody and end up overextending myself. Think of it like dating. Or life! Some people, when they're tired or not feeling well or simply aren't motivated to make plans with someone for flzkey that week, are able to say no to an invitation immediately. I understand, however, that some people don't get their flaky friend.

Why do people keep flaking out?

Let me shed some light on this frustrating phenomenon. Andy is flaky.

Loading Top definition. Half the reason I blow things off is because they start too late.

The worst habits of flaky people

They lack focus. Flaky people are not those people.

They commit to do things but rarely follow through. When I bail on friends who have live-in boyfriends, it's not like they're going to be lonely — they'll just stay in and watch Frasier or have sex or do whatever couples do. Then there's the simply human side of it. Kurt Gray, a psychology professor at the University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill, has been looking intoas he puts it, "whether technology makes you a jerk. In addition to losing their things, they may forget dates, stories, and details.

Flaky people have trouble managing their time, staying organized, and controlling their impulses, so they might forget things, be late, cancel plans, or have trouble keeping up with responsibilities. Back.

vlakey Yes, the lure of staying in and Googling "Liv Tyler exfoliation routine" when it's 10 degrees out and my cat is on my lap is strong. Flaky people can also be perfectionistsin that if flakey people say "yes" to something and it doesn't go according to plan, or they don't think they make it perfect, they flake at the last second to avoid making a mistake or letting someone down. Agreeableness is a personality trait associated with being cooperative and unselfish.

If someone's flaking on you a lot — as much as it sucks — it might be intentional. A person who is very unreliable.

It's even easier to hit the non-committal "Interested" button on a Facebook event and decide not to go at the last minute. Another relevant personality trait, Koestner says, is something psychologists call conscientiousness.

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When people flake — commit to plans and then either cancel at the last minute or simply don't show — it raises a lot of questions. They may sometimes respond quickly, but it might be common for them to send delayed responses or to never respond. For instance, I flake on my sisters a lot, and there's nobody I love in the world more than my sisters.

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Can you believe our parents had to make plans and actually show up to the plans, on time? And perhaps they honestly believe they can deliver.

They will seem sincere when they make a promise. Andy from Hereford promised to spend the weekend with you, but would never commit to a date.

The 10 reasons your friend is flaky

Now That's Funny Flaking itself is nothing new, but the term has changed over time. That friend! Research shows it's just easier to flake in the digital age.

By Marissa Higgins May 30, You know that one person in your friend group who is, for lack of a better word, a flake?